Day 20 – Only you, always you
Aug 16th, 2010 by Angele
Day 20: Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future

Need I say more? ![]()
What do you see when you look into the future?
Us. I see you and me. Together.
Today happens to be his birthday.. so happy birthday LaSh
. You are my moment of happiness in my world of daily struggles. Love you always <3
“You are my moment of happiness in my world of daily struggles.”
Lash only makes Angele happy for one moment… :-?
sweeet! I lubbs it! I always like seeing couples’ pictures because most of the time (if not always) both parties seem to have this love-struck goofy grin on their faces and it’s just too precious!
happy birthday to your mister!! :D
Awwwwwwwww cutee!!
eh coment dir dans n jardin denfant sa pic la! tou le temps mo dir mo bisin ask toi, lerla tou letemps mo blier!!!
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
p.s happy birthday Lash
To PinknPurpleLizard,
-______-”
To Meli,
Thank you for the wishes! Je lui dirais!
I love couple pictures too but the boyfriend doesn’t like to camwhore so we don’t have a lot of pictures together!
To la pingouine,
Thanks
To Jaimie,
Nou ti dan casela sa. Ti p fer photoshoot
.
To Manju,
Cute!! <3
and Happy Birthday Lash!
awww
Thx beb, and thank you to all those who wished me in this post – even if I may not know most of you lot!
I guess it’s too late for me, isn’t it? I’m already married. No regrets though. I’m married to a wonderful wife who has given me a wonderful daughter. What more can I ask for?
Whaaaaat…. I’m learning to read in between the lines… :P
ssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhh!!!!
damn it Angele! dont jinx it! dont scare him away!!! :P
ps: no offence meant! but just out of curiosity, whats your stand on religion? will you have to convert if you get married? or, do you have a choice?
Happy belated birthday LaSh! :)
To Christine,
Thanks missy!
To Patrick,
You’re a lucky man. You have it all
. I hope to be as blessed as you are someday.
To PinknPurpleLizard,
Tsk tsk
Reading in between lines, uh? Room for improvement here!
To waz,
Ha! The question everybody asks when they come to know my boyfriend is Muslim! This is a touchy subject for a lot of people but I’m ok with it. I’ve always told myself that nobody will ever make me do something against my will. If someday I convert to Islam, it will be because I truly want to and not because someone forced me into it. But I know where I stand, I know who I am and where I belong.
But do you know that “it is permissible for a Muslim man to marry a non-Muslim woman if she is Christian or Jewish, but it is not permissible for him to marry a non-Muslim woman who follows any religion other than these two”?
Interfaith marriages are very common nowadays and I think that for such marriages to succeed, couples should avoid mistakes like :
- ignoring the religious differences
- believing that love only will conquer everything
- forcing your beliefs upon your partner
- giving in so much that you lose your own traditions and your own self-respect
… etc.. etc..
LaSh and I have been together for more than 4 years now. We love and respect each other and despite all the challenges and obstacles, we will work it out, together, hand in hand.
I can write a lot on the subject but maybe I’ll leave that for some future posts?
To day-dreamer,
Merci beaucoup dd
yes, the touchy and almost taboo subject!
Whatever your choice, its yours and Ive no objection. Im quite open-minded. I like to think of myself as being “liberal”. Like I said, Im just curious. Im curious as I dont know how much Mu has changed. Is it still very traditional and conservative? Or are we more tolerant nowadays? Do we still care about such things as religion when it comes to marriage? Considering how you are of my generation, if not younger, and you are still in Mu (unlike me), you can be a perfect “barometer” of how things are. Hence, my annoying question! :P
So far, Ive met a married couple where the husband is a muslim and the wife is not. I find this quite interesting. Unfortunately, I havent had the opportunity to drill them with my questions! :P Perhaps, like you put it, it’s because she is christian. Or perhaps, its just because they just dont care about it and they are part of a society where it’s considered normal not to care. Its just love Full Stop.
I like to see interfaith and inter-ethnic marriages succeed! Inevitably, it leads to a rapprochement between two otherwise distinct groups. And eventually, better understanding, tolerance and yaaay peaceful coexistence…
ps: yeeees blog about it please! i want to know more.
pss: ive nothing against any religion. im just being nosy! but yes, feel free to be offended if you feel like you need to be offended…
psss: well according to my shrink, ive made much progress in mental stability by being able to change my status from “boring” to “dark humor”! :P yes, its called improvement! :P
To Angele
What the arrival of my daughter made me realise is that there are so many things that are not important in life but to which we tend to attach a lot of importance. Before Angelica, I used to say, “If only I had this or that.” Now, it’s totally different. I guess what she made me realise that it should always be about me.
I hope this will make you smile:
Before I became a father, I never checked the baby clothes aisle in the supermarket when I went grocery shopping. For the frist few months, I would stob by a supermarket to buy some grocery before heading home after work. I would always checked the baby clothes aisle. It’s so much more pleasant buying things for your child than buying for yourself. I can help wondering if I would have felt the same way if I had a baby boy instead of a baby girl. I guess I will never know…unless I have a second child and that the second child turns out to be a boy. But like my mother said to me, as a father I will love my child the same way regardless if my child is a boy or a girl.
happy belated birthday to the monsieur! :d
Lovely couple :d
I see myself and Lily like you see yourself and your Lash :)
Happy belated burrday to your boyfie :)
To nino,
Thanks =]
You and Lily look fantastic together <3 Spread the love!